Vin DiCarlo - Pandoras Box (Complete PUA System)

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This is a general rule, and as we see later, this rule is not valid with allwomen.Butbasically–it’stheideaofalphamale.That’swhyyou willoftenseeguysoffthestreet–whohavenotraining–actinglike alpha male assholes – pushing their friends around and pretending not to give a shit.

What’s they don’t realize is that not only does this come across as insecurity,butalsothatonlycertaintypesofwomenrespondtothat real masculine dominance and others don’t. So it is not foolproof.

2.Most women are extremely fearful of being judged as a slut.

ItcarrieswithitHUGEsocialconsequences. Mostpeopleknowthis to some degree – which women don’t want to be judged as sluts, buttheydon’tunderstandhowsensitivetheissuereallyis,andhow evensmalldetailsofyourinteractioncanleadtoherperceivingthis.

They are scared of being judged by their friends, other guys, the public,andmostimportantlyYOU. Thatisonethatmanymenmiss. They believe that their interest and desire for her relieves this fear

–buttrustme–itdoesnot. Itisahugeobjectionnotonlytohaving sex with a guy – both too soon, or even if lots of time has passed – but is also the main reason why she rejects so many advances. In her mind, it is ok for her to flirt her ass off with a guy – but if he makes one wrong move at the wrong time – its game over.

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3.95% of all women have experienced SOME LEVEL of sexual trauma in their past.

It could be recent or it could be from a long time ago. It could be as small as something like trying to work out at a gym but guys keep staring at her boobs (why do you think they have gyms just for women) or as significant as full out sexual assault or rape.

Most of the time it is someone she knew, someone very close to her or a stranger. I was shocked by this – because as guys – it’s not something we ever really worry about – unless we’ve been in prison or something similar. But women have a very different daily experience than men, and we MUST take that into consideration. They are smaller, weaker, and 100x less aggressive than the average man.

The same feelings YOU would feel living in a prison with rapists and murders is sometimes experienced by women on a daily basis. And they have developed very sophisticated mental protection mechanisms to deal with this. A lot of this program will teach you exactly how to disarm those mechanisms. How women deal with these experiences mentally is of extreme importance in the model.

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4.We live in a MALE DOMINATED SOCIETY and there is immense pressure for women to fit in.

Most people in politics are men. Most bosses of businesses are men. Men are the leaders and the heads of households. Up until the 60’s women did not even leave the house to work normal jobs

– they were housewives. There is a STRONG movement for women to play the same roles as men right now, and it is being positioned as EQUALITY.

Yes from one perspective it shows equality, but let’s not forget the millions of years of evolution where women were playing completely opposite, but complimentary roles. We are still in somewhatofatransitionperiodintimewherewomenhavearange ofconflictingpressures,regardingthebestwaytolivetheirlive,and even when women are comparatively young at even 18, 19 or 20 they must make decisions that could affect all of their future.

5.Women love sex, NEED sex and experience MORE physical

Therepleasurehavefrombeensexmanyas menstudies. to verify this, not that you need one just watches how much control a women loses when she has an orgasm compared to a man. There are also two psychological elements to this as well.

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First,becausehavingsexwithanewguyisconsideredsomuchmore taboo for women than it is for men – I mean men are considered STUDS the more sex they have by their friends – because of that difference, there is an additional excitement and rush that comes with it for women.

Second – biologically the stakes are much higher. If a guy has sex

– he reloads in minutes and is ready to go again. He can mate with hundreds or thousands of women a year – however a WOMAN can only be pregnant ONCE per year – technically its nine months – but becausewithahigherriskcomesahigherreward. WomenDOwant sex, but there are certain criteria that must be met. And satisfying those criteria is different depending on her character type.

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Women often speak an almost indecipherable female code that’s almost impossible for men to translate. Things like how to know she is giving off signals that she’s interested, how to know she’s flirting or being serious, why she likes certain guys as “just friends”, what secret behaviors get her horny, when she’s ready to be kissed or have sex with you, if she wants a relationship or not, why she’s friendly one minute and ice cold the next, and the list goes on and on.

What’s interesting is that – this woman-speak – or women speaking a different language than men comes DIRECTLY FROM THESE CONFLICTS. So pay attention.

In this section we are going to:

1. Identify the three major conflicts between her biological drive and

society pressure

2. Learn the mental strategies she uses to deal with those conflicts

3. Transparentlyandinvisiblyalignourselveswiththosestrategies

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emotionalcomfort.Thiswillmakeyouautomaticallyprojectthe

qualitiesandattributesthatmakeherattractedandgetherturnedon. There are three MAJOR conflicts however, that are so intense, they force women to choose a dominant strategy, and that becomes part of her personality - which dictates significant behavioral differences – and determines which triggers makes her feel attracted, which behaviors make her feel comfortable, and what gets her turned on.